Why I Started Adding 2-3 Nights to Work Trips Just for Us

Short answer: I tack 2-3 nights onto trips I’m already taking for work. The flight’s already booked, the work portion already pays for itself, and my wife can work remotely those days so nobody burns vacation. We add one good experience a day, keep work first, and call it connection time, not a vacation. That’s […]

France & UK With Kids: Chamonix, Paris, and London (What Actually Worked)

Short answer: Start in the mountains, not the capital. We did Chamonix (3 days), Paris (5), then London (5) with four families and kids aged 8 to 15. The Alps reset the jet lag, trains beat airport chaos, and one museum per city kept everyone sane. We didn’t see everything. We remember almost all of […]

What We Did Wrong the First Time We Took the Kids Across the Pond

Short answer: Our biggest mistake was cramming six cities into two weeks. Too many hotels, ten hours of driving, and a Vatican slog with tired kids. The fix is simple: three bases, four to five nights each, trains over driving, and start slow in a smaller town before hitting a capital like Paris or London. […]

How I Turned a 3-Day Trade Show Into a 13-Day Family Trip to Japan

Short answer: I had a 3-day trade show at Intex Osaka, so I bolted 10 family days onto the front of it. We did Tokyo, Kyoto, then Osaka, then I went to work. Family first means I’m over the jet lag and actually present, instead of running on fumes after three days on a show […]

Jet Lag Is Easy — Performing Like a Human Is the Hard Part

Short answer: Jet lag itself is easy. The hard part is performing like a functioning human while you’re wrecked. I don’t try to win day one. I shower, nap 60-90 minutes, eat on local time, move a little, and hard-stop by 9-10pm. In meetings I listen more than I lead. I aim for 70-80%, not […]

The Dad Math of Travel: When Upgrades, Points, and Extra Nights Are Worth It

Short answer: Run the spend through four questions: Does it protect my energy? Protect a shared memory? Reduce friction? Will I regret skipping it? If two or more are yes, pay the cash or burn the points. That’s the dad math. The cheapest option usually isn’t best, and the priciest rarely earns its keep. I’ve […]